Makes me wonder why they were making bets about your marriage. They probably saw something in you that your dh doesn't see.

I don't think the number of years you've been married is all that impressive. I have a friend that's been married 11 yrs and her dh has two kids with her and two with another women. I think its idiotic whenever I hear her say something like, "11 yrs and still going strong. I also know a woman who has been married for 15 yrs and she knows for a fact her dh has slept with no fewer than 20 women during their marriage. Every time she finds out she's a wreck and says something like, "Well, he always comes back." Ugh!!

If you would have asked me a year ago if I'd be getting a divorce, I'd slap you silly. We were so happy, I didn't think anything could break us. In a year, our marriage has been destroyed, mostly by his doings. I hate him. I can't raise our baby alone, so baby is going to his parents while I get on my feet (he'll be deployed). I feel like life isn't worth living anymore, I've already lost everything.

My inlaws suck so much, a few of them actually made cash bets AT our wedding reception on how long our marriage would last. The max I overheard was a year. We will be celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary in August.

My aunt moved to Australlia to start over after 4 failed marriages to drunks, druggies and abuers. Now she is on a mission to date/marry every drunk, druggie and abuser in the outback. Moving away doesn't fix the problem. You have to work on fixing yourself.

I realized tonight if my marriage were to end, I'd probably be single forever. Mostly because where the hell would you even look for a decent guy? Meh...no thanks...lol

If DH smacks one more girls ass, while I'm out of the room, Im getting a divorce. I do not want to be married to a pig. Fuck that. (And no, he didn't do this before marriage.)

I get just the right amount of rough sex and sweet passion from this man. I know one day we're going to have to part ways. He wants a family one day, and I have a pre-made one (previous marriage) and cannot/do not want more kids. I get sad whenever I think about that day, but decided I'm going to enjoy some of the best mind blowing sex, laughs and fun times until that day comes. Life is too short to be miserable. I also believe you can find love again, so while it hurts I also know it's not the end of the world. Will just really, really, really suck.

I love the fact I can unsubscribe (instead of deleting and dealing with drama) from people on fb. Another 20 pictures of your not cute kid today? Unsubscribe. Bragging about your perfect marriage when I know your husband is a douche? Unsubscribe. A million political posts? Unsubscribe. :)

People change over the course of a marriage. So yep, it is completely important to know who you are marrying--and equally important to continue to learn about the partner you have chosen to spend your life with.