Soon, my husband will quit his job, and I will have to start working full time in fast food to make ends meet, after being a SAHM for 6 years, because I am not qualified for anything else. All while studying full time and probably doing all the housework and cooking after work.

My husband just had two days off work. He carried the washing up the stairs and hung the sheets out. That is ALL he did in the two days except come to the park for an hour yesterday, and sit on his arse playing stupid computer games like a 10 year old. I really truly do love him, otherwise I wouldn't still be here. It would be much easier to not have to organise around his work and gaming schedule, pick up after him and try not to be angry all the time as a result of having an entitled asshole hanging around moping when the internet runs too slow and his game glitches.

I think I made a mistake choosing my husband.

It's always disappointing to me to realize that the firmly decided opinion that my husband has about something is actually flimsy as hell and he's just been making it up as he goes along while trying to make me feel stupid. Makes me think a whole lot less of him.

The one that got away and I...we could never get our lives in sync. We were always in different places in the world and in our lives. We're both married now. Just found out he has a hereditary heart defect, which he will pass on to at least one of his kids, and he won't live a long life. With all the tragedies in my life, I could never handle losing a husband or child too early. I believe God knows this and kept us apart for a reason. We still keep in touch, and I will always love him...always.

OP of the my husband watching porn confession. It hurts bc he picks the porn instead of me. We have about the same need (every other day), but sometimes we go 3-4 days w/o bc he watched porn and isnt interested in me. It hurts bc Im 24 and we are newlyweds. This is supposed to be when we are the hottest for eachother. WTF.

I think it is weird when there is an "open door" policy among 4 or five houses. All hours? You all have kids? I have seen husbands going into other homes at all hours. Sorry, don't think it's communal. I think it's creepy.

You can know someone when you marry them but people change due to circumstances. Don't put me down because you think I was stupid for picking the husband I did. He wasn't like this then. It could happen to you, so no need to feel superior.

My husband sure as hell isn't perfect, but he's perfect for me. :) Flaws and all! I love him!

Will my work EVER be as important as my husband's in his eyes?